Hey everyone, I haven't been particularly active on the forums lately, as I've been very busy working, but now I have some time off.
So I want to finally get Skyrim all modded up and give it a good, long playthrough.
First off, I was wondering if someone who isn't banned on the DDA forums could look up my name over there and find the thread, should be one of the last few threads I started, called something like "Skyrim mod suggestions". It has a bunch of mods that I used the last time I tried to mod Skyrim.
Next, I'm wondering if there is anyone who enjoys modding, who wouldn't mind adding me on Steam and using screenshare to walk me through the install process. The reason I need this level of help is listed below:
So, the last round I went with Skyrim saw early successes but ultimately ended with a KO; I had it all modded up with almost all the mods I wanted, but then saving and loading times for savegames started increasing exponentially; It went from taking a few seconds one day to a few days later taking 15 minutes.

I have no clue where I messed up. And now that I've been looking at install guides it's like I'm reading Chinese. No, worse than that, Chinese that's written upside down and backwards, in code.
EDIT: The other major issue which burned me out on Skyrim last time is that I installed a darker night mod that totally messed up the game; it made it so that even with multiple light sources and night vision I could barely see, and couldn't uninstall it.
Despite the fact that I spend a sizeable amount of my time in front of a computer, I'm really not a computer guy; if I could play games without a computer AND be able to use a mouse and keyboard, AND be able to use mods, I wouldn't own one. Maybe for research and youtube. but that's about it.
So any help would be greatly appreciated
EDIT: My steam name is HunterBravo1
EDIT2: Ok let me start the list of mods I'm currently looking at:
I have all DLC.
I don't know if the links to the mods I'm posting are the most up to date versions of their respective mods.
I also don't know which/any of these mods are (in)compatible with each other.
TBH, I have no fucking EDIT: I forgot where I was going with that lol!
Red crossed out mods are ones that I have installed:
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Predator Vision - Vampire Werewolf and Khajiit by Gopher http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/22274/? 3.
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T3nd0s Skyrim Redone by T3nd0 http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/9286/?tab=2&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Fskyrim%2Fajax%2Fmodfiles%2F%3Fid%3D9286&pUp=15.
Better Vampires http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/9717/? 6.
Royal Bloodline - Vampire Lord perk tree - abilities - and more by xyks and Tx12001 http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/22565/? 7.
Bat travel http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/21689/? 8.
9. A shout overhaul mod
10.
When Vampires Attack by Arthmoor http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/28235/? 11.
Run For Your Lives by Arthmoor http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/23906/? 12.
Open Cities http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/8058/? 13.
Civil War Overhaul http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/37216/? 14.
A Quality World Map and Solstheim Map - With Roads by IcePenguin http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/4929/? 15.
SkyUI by SkyUI Team http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/3863/? 16.
Immersive Patrols by Scrabbulor http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/12977/? 17.
Frostfall - Hypothermia Camping Survival by Chesko http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/11163/? 18.
Moonpath to Elsweyr by muppetpuppet http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/9782/? 19.
Wet and Cold by isoku http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/27563/? 20.
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Auto Unequip Ammo by Alek http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/10753/?tab=2&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Fskyrim%2Fajax%2Fmodfiles%2F%3Fid%3D10753&pUp=122.
Enhanced Lights and FX by anamorfus http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/27043/?tab=2&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Fskyrim%2Fajax%2Fmodfiles%2F%3Fid%3D27043&pUp=1 23.
Skyrim -Community- Uncapper by Elys http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/1175/?tab=1&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Fskyrim%2Fajax%2Fmoddescription%2F%3Fid%3D1175%26preview%3D&pUp=124.
25. Falskaar by AlexanderJVelicky
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/37994/? 26. Wyrmstooth by Jonx0r
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/25704/? 27. All the Fight Against the Thalmor quests
28.
Extensible Follower Framework by Expired http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/12933/? 29.
Immersive Spells and Light - Spells emit light by Quando http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/39759/? 30.
Smart Cast by NeoRunek http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/43123/? 31. Wintermyst - Enchantments of Skyrim by Enai Siaion and T3nd0
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/58635/? 32.
Immersive HUD - iHUD by Gopher[/s]
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/3222/? 33.
Pure Waters by Laast http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/1111/? 34.
Convenient Horses by Alek http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/14950/? 35.
Unofficial High Resolution Patch by Unofficial Patch Project Team http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/31255/? 36.
Skyrim HD - 2K Textures by NebuLa from AHBmods http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/607/?tab=1&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Fskyrim%2Fajax%2Fmoddescription%2F%3Fid%3D607%26preview%3D&pUp=1 37.
Static Mesh Improvement Mod - SMIM by Brumbek http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/8655/?tab=1&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Fskyrim%2Fajax%2Fmoddescription%2F%3Fid%3D8655%26preview%3D&pUp=1 38.
ReProccer - Automated SkyRe patch generator by T3nd0 http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/28467/? 39.
Skyrim -Community- Uncapper by Elys http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/1175/?tab=1&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Fskyrim%2Fajax%2Fmoddescription%2F%3Fid%3D1175%26preview%3D&pUp=1This list will hopefully continue to grow, please make suggestions!