Just out of curiosity, have you ever considered starting your own fork of DDA? I doubt you'd have trouble finding people who Granola has pissed off who'd like to contribute, and if I'm being honest, you guys being pissed at someone who is actively acting as a dev (whether his ideas are shitty or not) while continually saying you're not wanting to be involved with it anymore, and trying to call him out on their forums leaves a kinda bad taste in my mouth from a "taking the higher ground" standpoint. Besides, it's pretty clear those guys have a very set idea of how they want the game to be, and many people seem to think it's a shitty future for DDA.
I personally would rather play something built by RD and other folks who've given up on dealing with the DDA dev crap than what it seems like they're planning to do. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would enjoy that - even LC's fork got played, and he was arguably just as big of a twat as The Almighty Granola Bar, so I'm pretty sure you guys as non-twats would have some success.
Just a thought.