So my experience in ARMA 2 multiplayer so far
*join Takistan Life server
*get money from atm
*go buy car
*can't get into car
Some guy "if you don't move your car from the spawn I will report you on TS"
Me "I can't get into the thing"
*He despawns it
*I quit
Seriously, there are no normal servers left with players, and the only populated ones are Dayz or Takistan Life, and after that I'm not going to even try another one of those servers. I don't know, why not try explaining something if someone has a question in the faction that doesn't demand that their on teamspeak instead of expecting them to get onto teamspeak to ask questions.
As a note, I don't have team speak installed so that was part of my frustration.
Play Wasteland. It is a decent compromise, and the people tend to be friendly.