Nope, not Pankin. I think he gave up on the forums, didn't see him post in a long while.
Well, she just would get really, really irrationally angry whenever we ever disagreed to the point where I had to walk on egg shells around her. I made a mistake and she cut off all contact with me, except for occasionally saying her friends thought horrible things of me. I became horribly depressed and tried to talk to her about that, and she said 'several of her friends read our chat logs and said I was manipulating her.' But that she 'loved my anyway' and wanted to stay with me, but only if I'd change. She convinced me I was a manipulative abuser and tried to mold me into a self-loathing SJW so we wouldn't fight as much. When she realized it wasn't working, she broke up with me and I realized all the shit she'd done.